“Is it me, or is it him? It’s him, right?” That was the phrase made popular by Martin Short’s character Nathan Thurm on Saturday Night Live. Second guessing has always been an anoyance to me. I think it is largely a defense against being that way too much myself. As Nathan would say, “I know that! Why wouldn’t I know that? I’m well aware of that!” I’m convinced, at least for now, that it is you, not me.